Not being there for your friend when they need you the most is probably the worst thing you can do to him/her. Well, Woon Yang, you can go screw off.

Today was quite a pitiful class gathering for 4F =\ Only 13 people came, and I'd have barbeque over Shokudo anytime. But I'm kinda glad that we had this gathering anyway, even though our class was never bonded.

So there was this debate about whether a guy should be discreet when woo-ing a girl. But then again, how discreet is discreet? If we're talking about talking on the phone and just chatting, then I'd still consider it as "friends" zone, but some other people might not. So let's just put the definition of discreet as "the girl does not notice that the guy likes her in that way". If a guy is direct, and the girl gets scared off, then it's most likely game over for the guy, so much of it depends on the initial impression the girl has of the guy. If she's somewhat attracted, then all the better for the guy.

But if the guy is discreet about his feelings, how long is he gonna be discreet for? There's always the mindset that the guy doesn't want to spoil the quite-good relationship he has with her already in case he screws up. But if he continues to be discreet, then she'll always be just a crush, hence it's either you confess or you let your own feelings die out. And if you confess, there's the chance that the girl only sees you as a friend, and you'll eventually strain or lose the friendship too =\ Or if you wait for the girl to show signs that she likes you before you confess, what if the girl is attracted, but is too shy to show? Then in the end, both parties are at a stalemate >.<

So which is the better choice? I think it's really up to the individual's personality. If he's the kind who's satisfied with just being close, then he'll be more likely to be the discreet type. But this whole thing is ambiguous, since we cannot be 100% sure of what goes on in an individual's head =\

Coming down with cold and sore throat soon. Hopefully won't get too bad =X